black silk dress Quince Women's Washable 100% Mulberry Slip Dress, Black, Size XL 70 cm HIPS 35 Silk Cowl-Neck Gown | Banana

Although I do love pistachios in a salad Make ahead: If serving for a special occasion or you just want to make ahead, go ahead and make the dressing

As for shoes, in most cases black works

Available at ZIMMERMANN.COM Crimped Lace Cami Midi Dress 1,040 | Christopher Esber Sheer panels meet delicate lace in this sophisticated cami dress

Marie Oliver Bailey Light Green Botanical Print Micro Pleat Maxi Dress Eazy, breezy and beautiful, this airy maxi is a dream for summer wedding guests

Consider factors like the type of event and your personal preference

Id suggest picking two or three gown possibilities for your event and filling the rest of your membership slots with fun designer bags or more casual dresses from plus-size friendly brands like Tanya Taylor or Derek Lam 10 Crosby for the rehearsal dinner or post-wedding brunch