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Silks, satins, or florals are all nice places to start, especially for spring and summer weddings

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These are our top 3 favorite places to buy black tie optional wedding attire that nail this dress code: Anthropologie: With an entire collection of black tie gowns, Anthropologie is a staple for gorgeous and appropriate wedding attire that stands out

Pair it with low block heelsperhaps in a metallic or nude finishfor comfortable height

Dip your finger in a bit of water and tap the tops of the lemons to make them appear smoother