The tux, also known as a dinner suit, is the most classic mens formal wear option
This means switching jeans with skirts or wide leg pants or switching leggings with Velvet or leather leggings or pants
Never be to afraid to add some bold pieces to your look
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When I came out as a lesbian, androgyny was de rigueur, though in later years butch or femme presentation became more common and acceptable again and in some cases, a lot of fun
Doing so will not violate the established dress code, and you should never feel ashamed of not wearing full Black Tie if you choose to accept the opportunity to instead wear Black-Tie Optional